Hello and Welcome!

‘(Relational) intimacy isn’t something you have, it’s something you do. And you can learn to do it better.’ Terry Real

I work with individuals and couples who are…

stuck

dissatisfied or frustrated or miserable

ready to quit

……and with people who want to get better at relationships, since most of us didn’t learn how to be fully respectful in our most intimate relationships.

Particular areas of focus include

  • feeling that something HAS TO change

  • connection between partners

  • parenting teens

  • sandwich generation stress (when you’re caring for your kids and your parents’ needs)

  • life transitions

  • communication skills

I listen to your experiences and ask a lot of questions. I help you find what’s keeping you from getting what you’d like, and I give you tools to make real, positive changes. Relational skills are very learnable, and they can elevate every area of life.

We meet on Zoom for 55 min sessions, once a week, for as long as you need my support.

Contact me for session pricing.

Work With Me

I offer an initial 45 min introductory call ($75) to give us all a chance to see if we will work together. Sometimes people have pre-conditions which need to be addressed before relational coaching can help, and sometimes you just need help from another practitioner.

Sessions are scheduled weekly to start, and we will decide together how often to meet, and how long to continue.

Relational coaching works best when you can focus on our sessions without distractions, and when you are prepared to practice between sessions.

Coaching is not psychoanalysis, or energy work, or talk therapy. I am trained in various modalities, and have chosen to coach so that I have the flexibility to work with clients who live anywhere in the world, and to help them using tools which fit best for their needs.

My main focus is Relational Life Coaching, based on the work of Terry Real (author of Us, Fierce Intimacy, The New Rules for Marriage), and I find RLC to be effective, efficient, and profoundly respectful. It provides insight, connection, and skills for improving even long-term relational problems.